Going on a Hope and a Prayer

I feel guilty. I have been avoiding my blog. The main reason is because I don't really have anything music related to blog about. It has fallen into that "things on my to do list that never get done" category. I knew that there was a good possibility that this would happen.  I wish that I could say that I now intend to end this chronic procrastination, but the reality is that I probably won't. 


On a similar note, I have been thinking a lot lately about people who manage to find their "niche." I imagine that it must feel amazing to get to do what you love, and are good at doing, for a living. I've always held the belief that you can find something that you want to do, work hard to excel, and wind up loving it. I'm not so sure of this theory anymore. I think that WANTING something to be great isn't enough, maybe. There is a fine line between something not being right, or your approach to it not being right. How do you know if it's your attitude that needs changing or the situation all together? 


One thing is for sure, music is the only constant in my ever evolving existence. That means something, right? I am throwing up my hands, and asking the cosmos to help a sista out. If music is my "niche" then why is it so hard for me to DO IT? AND if it's not, then why can't I just put it aside and find fulfillment through some other avenue?  

Take That, Scarlett Jo!

When the hubs and I first met, he thought it was so sexy that I sang. He loves Tom Waits, and thought it would be really cool if I covered some Tom Wait's songs and put my own spin on them. I agreed that it was a really cool idea, but of course it never happened because I quit singing. 

A few years later, I was irked to learn that Scarlett Jo had put out an entire album of Tom Wait's covers. Of course, I had no reason to be upset seeing as how I had no real plans of doing it myself. It was the principle. So I decided to choose a Tom Wait's song this time to sing, for the hubs and your listening pleasure. 

The background music is not really meant for vocals, but it was the best I could find:) 

There is Beauty in a Breakdown

Yesterday was the worst day I've had in a very long time. Several unfortunate events all collided into one crap of a day. Then the meltdown happened. I cried the ENTIRE day. I could barely take care of the girls. My eyes were so swollen this morning it looked like I got in a boxing match.


 I won't go into all the gory details, but will say that I came face to face with a "one of my worst fears" situation.  It was like one of those dreams where you go to a party, your laughing, having fun, and all of a sudden you notice people snickering behind your back while giving you the crazy eye. Then it hits you that you failed to put on anything more than your underpants before arriving to the bash. Purely, humiliating. It caused me to question everything about myself, and forced me to examine several issues that I have been trying to avoid. Most of all, it made me realize that I truly am my own worst enemy. I have forgotten how to live, to be, to let my light shine, so to speak. I am not sure when this happened. I guess it's been a slow progression. The truth is, I have not felt like "myself" in a long time. It's a difficult realization to accept.


I woke up this morning with a quiet determination to face myself, and let this be a catalyst for growth.
I decided that I needed to put things into perspective. I began to write down a few key words to inspire me . I came up with my Seven Commandments. I am starting with seven because it still leaves room to add more later if necessary... I mean, "Eleven" or "Twelve" Commandments just doesn't have the same effect. Anywho, I came up with this:
1. Be Present
2. Accept
3. Listen
4. Choose
5. Love
6. Forgive
7. Be Grateful 


I jotted this down on my arm so that I could glance at it when the anxiety and negativity started to arise, which was most of the day. I was surprised to find that it helped almost immediately. I began to notice the beauty in things that I have been oblivious to recently. I started to become more aware that the truly important things in my life have been taking a back seat to my neurotic self doubt and pity.


I don't want to be that person. I want to be strong, compassionate, and most of all, I want to be someone who makes others days and lives better.

The plan... for now.

It's time to get a little more organized. I think I've been having trouble getting anything accomplished with music because I don't really have a "vision." I have fantasies about singing, but no real plan of action. It's time to get real and look at the facts. One is glaringly obvious, and that is we need more money. The most logical way to make more money by singing is to market myself as a wedding singer. Of course, I am referring to the wedding ceremony. I already know all of the standards, and it is a way to make a little extra money without having to pay a sitter to watch the girls because most ceremonies only last about an hour. And there is also the practice time, but even this is minimal. 


As for the plan... this is where it gets a little tricky. First, I need to record at least a couple of songs to be able to market myself. Ummkay, I don't have the equipment to do this myself so I need to figure out who I know(if anyone) that does. Then, I have to figure out the best way to advertise myself. This will just require a bit of research on my part. Then I'll be at least utilizing my voice, making a bit of cash, and can still pursue other avenues of music making. 


Simple, right? 

Singing French is Fun!

No, I have not given up my blog or singing, I've been busy... with my garden. Seriously though, there is like two months in New Orleans were it is tolerable to be outside and I have a large yard soooo you see my predicament. Anywho, it is a rainy day so I thought I'd do a bit of blogging during the kid's nap time. 


So I have good news! I may have my first singing job! Yay!(I realize that was a lot of exclamation points, but I'm really excited)! My husband works with a girl who needs a wedding singer and so he recommended me. I mean, what do people charge for singing in weddings? I have always sung for free. 


I am even more proud of myself because I have managed to clean the house, video record a song, and post a blog all in the same day, AND there is time left over for some "me time" tonight. 


So about the video, I decided to do La Vie en Rose because I love the song and have always wanted to learn it. The video is not the whole song, but it's the best I could do under the time constraints. I decided to show myself singing this time, and I already regret it. My hair is all F'ed up, and I can't even look at the camera because I'm reading the lyrics. But whatever, here it is...

And the break continues...

My voice is shot. Mardi Gras + Cold = Man Voice. However, I have chosen my next song to learn, but I'm not spilling the beans yet. I will just say that it's going to be a doozy because it's in a different language.
Until next time...

Mardi Gras Madness

Well folks, its that time of year again. I adore Mardi Gras and because of this fact I will not be practicing or blogger for the next couple of weeks. Instead, I will be drinking/parading/dancing/laughing with a little bit of work thrown in there too. 


Happy Mardi Gras and Le bon Temp Roule!